~ Part 1 ~ Basankusu: The story of little Matthew
Not long
after my return from England, just after New Year, I went to Judith’s house to
see the severely malnourished children she’d started feeding at her house on a
daily basis. She’d already found a new house to serve as our new centre, but
until arrangements were finalised she was quietly helping the mothers of these
children to keep them alive. My students hadn’t returned from their break yet,
and so I was free to visit most days.
One mother
brought her painfully thin 7 year-old son bound to her back like a baby. They
went to their little church first for a “praying cure” and always arrived late
at Judith’s house.
"There
aren’t enough hours in the day left to feed him, if he arrives so late,” I
implored Judith. “Tell her to skip church and bring him straight here.” A
child’s stomach can only accept so much food at a time, but they need to get as
many calories as they can each day – so missing a meal each day would make it
impossible for him to regain weight.
We
compromised by sending her off each day with some breakfast for him, which he
could eat before church, and then catch up with his eating later. I saw them
there several days but eventually they stopped coming.
“The mother
has taken him to her village, 30 km from here. She says she’ll feed him herself.”
I know
that, in England, Social Services would take such a child into care – no such
luxury here. We haven’t seen nor heard from them since.
Another
little boy was handed to me. I sat him on my lap; immediately I felt how bony
his body was and how tight the skin was on his face. His name was Matthew. I
guessed he was about 2 years old, but he turned out to be 4 years and 8 months
… not only very thin and listless, but also nowhere near as tall as other
children his age.
His mother,
Chantelle, came into the room and sat on the bamboo bed. A hen and its brood of
chicks huddled in the corner behind us as we spoke. Chantelle was partially
paralysed on one side of her face and she couldn’t use her right arm very well.
“Chantelle,
Matthew has lost weight again,” Judith began, firmly, “How have you let this
happen?”
Chantelle’s
answer was quite dismissive. “I’ve been ill myself, haven’t I? What am I
supposed to do?”
“It’s just
negligence, Chantelle …” Judith was getting distressed, “You have to make sure
he eats plenty, every day.”
Morning
milk had been given and maize porridge was on its way – everything enriched
with a little vegetable oil and sugar. A fresh pineapple lay on the table to
add a few vitamins to the day’s fare … and later there would be more solid
food.
I said my
good-byes and made my way back home.
A few days
later, Judith came to visit me at my home – Maison St Joseph – on the other
side of Basankusu. She told me that the new centre was now in use – a newly
built brick house just round the corner from where she lived. She wanted me to
visit the next day.
“But, I
have some sad news as well,” she said, “Little Matthew has died.”
I didn’t
know how to react. Over the previous year, our work had doubtless saved the
lives of at least 70 children; I had to get used to the fact that sometimes
there would be deaths. Some parents bring their child along too late to be
helped.
There then ensued
a conversation with everyone and anyone – including our cook – which focused on
the idea that I would pay for the burial costs. They would need a bed-sheet,
and planks of wood, and nails … and then people would need food and transport,
and so on.
I felt we
had made little progress in trying to get people to help themselves.
“The money
that people send me is to feed children,” I explained, “Burying someone is the
family’s responsibility. People have been dying here for a long time before I
came to live here … and they managed to bury people very well.”
The
conversation ended quickly – I would not pay for the burial, no matter how
heartless they thought I was. Those who were so insistent, I suggested, could
take up a collection themselves. But they didn’t.
The next
day I went to the new feeding centre and took some photos. Judith told me to
come along to a health centre which was nearby.
“One of our
children has been admitted,” she said, “Come and see.”
We made our
way between the various houses, some made from kiln-fired bricks and with
corrugated metal roofs, and others made from cold-pressed clay bricks with palm
thatched roofs. The meandering path took us through people’s back yards, made
from swept earth. Some people were cooking on wood fires, others washing
clothes in plastic tubs, while chickens, goats and the family hunting dog
wandered freely. We exchanged greetings with the people as we went along and
eventually came to a small health centre with a few iron-framed beds inside.
The child
Judith had asked me to visit was very small, swathed in a large piece of
flower-patterned cloth, his breathing was shallow but steady.
“They gave
him a blood transfusion yesterday,” said Judith. “He’s still very weak.”
A woman
entered the room. It was Chantelle, the mother of Matthew who I’d been told had
died. So who was this child? – I wondered. How is Chantelle connected to this
child? I greeted Chantelle, but stopped myself from offering my condolences. I
eventually put two and two together and realised that Matthew hadn’t died after
all.
We said our
good-byes and left the health centre staff to do their work. I walked close to
Judith and discretely asked, “So, is that the child who died?”
“Yes,” she
replied, “I thought you looked puzzled.”
“… and?” I
said.
“They gave
him a blood transfusion and he got better,” she smiled.
Perhaps
things get lost in translation, but I’m sure we would have a different way of
describing the situation, in English. I was disturbed by how the event had been
described – but, at the same time, relieved to find that Matthew was still with
us.
~ Part 2 ~ Basankusu: The story of little Matthew
The new
centre was soon up and running, welcoming children from a wide area, and for
seven days per week for the more severe cases. Chantelle was now being helped
by Matthew’s father; he had left her two years previously, but had come back
when he heard that Matthew was so ill.
Sister
Vicky, a local nun who is also a doctor and in charge of the diocesan health
services, came to visit and was very pleased with what we were doing.
“We will
treat you as if you are in partnership with our service,” she said. “If you
need to admit a child to the Catholic hospital (Basankusu’s Secondary
hospital), we will do a deal on the price – the same with medicines … we’ll
sell them to you at cost price.”
We were
very happy with that news; we’d been recognised for what we were doing and had
been included as one of the health centres for the diocese – if only on an
informal basis.
Judith, Sister Vicky, Nellie and Francis |
The very
next day, Matthew’s father brought him along to tohe centre, as he had started
to do each day. It was two weeks since his blood transfusion. His breathing was
extremely shallow and there was little response when he was spoken to.
“We need to
admit him to hospital, straight away,” explained Jean-Pierre, one of our two
nurses. “There’s no time to waste.”
The
hospital gave him a bed. The room was bleak – cement floor and white plastered
walls. The mattress was thin and split, it had no sheets or pillow. He would,
however, receive the medication he needed to bring down the inflammation from
his body and having him in one place would mean that we could monitor his
feeding each day. We arranged for enriched milk-powder to be taken to him each
day and cooked food would be delivered after midday, which could be given as
several meals throughout the day. The hospital took charge of his medication
and monitoring. Matthew’s parents were responsible for feeding and washing him.
The hospital has a generator for operations – but after six, each evening, it
sits in the deep, dark, black of night, with only the loud chirping of crickets
for company. We bought them a torch.
The days
went by and we saw a change in Matthew’s face. His skin regained some colour
and his eyes started to sparkle. His body remained emaciated, skeletal … and
must have been constantly painful. He developed a bed-sore at the base of his
spine.
I visited
as frequently as I could, and so did Judith – she was usually the one who
brought his food along. We tried to get one of our volunteers from the centre,
who lived locally to cook for him at the hospital but she found it too much of
a commitment, having her own children at home, too. We continued to send the
food daily. I personally called in as often as I could to see little Matthew’s
progress.
After one
week, I met Sister Anto at the convent; she’s the hospital administrator. She
wanted me to come and look at aother child they’d admitted and was suffering
from malnutrition.
“They don’t
seem to have any money, at all,” she confided. “If you could help them through
your centre - that would be great.”
I promised
I’d go to see the child Monday morning.
Monday
morning came and I met up with Judith at the hospital as she delivered milk to Matthew.
She had brought her own little boy, 5 (almost 6) year-old Christenvie, with
her. Alain came along, too. We soon found out that the child Sister Anto had
asked us to visit had already left the hospital.
“They’ve
done a runner,” she said. “They must have left during the night.”
We took the
child’s name and address and set out to find where he lived. He was a little 3½ year-old boy called Mikile. He lived
in a small village on the outskirts of Basankusu called Libanga, along the
river. I’d never been there before, neither had Judith.
We took the
Toyota Land Cruiser as far as we could through an area called Sampuka, which
extends down to the river. After that the track was only passable on foot. The
sun was high, and very hot, as we eventually came to Bolafa, a sleepy little
hamlet next to the river. We asked directions and were told it was still quite
a distance.
We left
Bolafa and were soon in full forest. Christenvie walked ahead of Judith and I
and showed no signs of tiring. With a wall of trees on either side and with
just the occasional glimpse of the river to our left, I was reminded of the
story of Hansel and Gretel. As we walked along I told the story to Christenvie
… but replaced the characters with himself as Hansel and Gretel, and Judith as
the parents. It seemed to go down well.
The path we
were on was well maintained, with sticks standing up on each side as pegs to
tie your canoe to. We realised that the river – at the moment very low – would
come right up to this level, and only the path would be above water. After half
an hour on this path, we came to a creek. Huge trees had been felled to form a
sort of bridge, but the trees just lay as they’d fallen, so it was a matter of
climbing along and over them to get to the other side without getting wet.
Eventually
we saw small houses made from grey bricks, probably made from the clay along
the riverside. We asked directions and came to Milike’s house.
“We’ve come
to see the child who was in the hospital,” Judith announced. “We have a centre
for feeding malnourished children and we’d like him to come along.”
“We buried
him, yesterday,” said one woman sitting in front of one of the houses, a
bubbling pot on the fire in front of her.
“But,
really,” continued Judith, unperturbed, “we want to help. Bring him out so we
can take him to our centre to feed him.”
Another
woman appeared. “You are too late. The child is dead and we buried him
yesterday. You won’t find him here now.”
They called
the boy’s father, a young, quiet man. “We were at the hospital for four weeks,”
he said. “They told us there was nothing else they could do and we came home.
Then our little boy died.”
They
brought out chairs and we sat down to talk. It was a very peaceful place. Only
the sounds of nature. The people were gentle … quiet … and the houses well set
out, with the area in front of each house clear and well swept. In Basankusu,
people would call out to me and demand money – they played loud music and were
generally more gregarious. The people here, of the Ngombe tribe, were calm,
working hard at their crafts, and didn’t seem to treat me as different to
anyone else there.
Judith told
them about our centre for malnutrition and that they should tell others so
people would know in time if any of their children should lose weight.
Milike’s
father realised that we’d walked quite a way and was impressed that we’d made
such an effort to help them.
“I’ll take
you back by river,” he said. … and at that we made our way down to the river.
Travelling
back by canoe I saw the beauty of the river, but siting in such a small canoe –
on a little stool – felt precarious as each little wave wobbled the canoe from
side to side. Milike’s dad stood tall at the stern of the boat with a one ended
paddle, paddling slowly on one side – and then on the other. Other canoes –
family members and friends – paddled alongside us. The river is very wide but
we stayed fairly close to the riverbanks. My only worry was, that if we fell
in, my camera would be damaged.
“Are you
worried?” Judith mocked.
“I’m not
worried,” I replied, “because I can swim. What about you? Who will save you if
you fall in?”
“You will
save me,” she replied.
“And who
will save your little boy?” I asked.
“Alain will
save him,” she said.
Sitting precariously in the canoe |
After about
three-quarters of an hour we came to Sampuka, where we’d left the car. Judith
really impressed me as we walked back – she stopped and asked people if there
were any malnourished children; here and there a discrete word would lead her
to a house and she would talk to the family about our centre.
“Your baby
needs help,” she’d say.
“No, my
baby’s fine.”
“I can see
that your baby is very thin; come along to our centre and we can give him milk
– don’t worry … it’s free.”
“I’ll think
about it …” – and then we’d move off to another house.
(Three
mothers came along to the centre the next week from Judith’s efforts.)
~ Part 3 ~ Basankusu: The story of little Matthew
After many
days of visiting Matthew and his mother, and sometimes his father, at the
hospital, our visiting Belgian eye-doctors arrived and installed themselves for
two weeks at the same hospital. Matthew had been moved to a ward with ten beds
in it, but with only a few other people sharing the room.
I visited
them on a Friday and Matthew’s eyes continued to sparkle. By Monday morning,
however, he’d gone downhill again.
“Where is
Matthew’s dad?” I asked Chantelle. “He’s supposed to be preparing his solid
food while we bring along milk powder.”
“He got
some paid work,” she said, as if it wasn’t a problem to leave his sick child
for a couple of days without food. I gave Chantelle money to buy something
locally, so that he would have something more than the enriched milk we were
sending.
The next
morning, Tuesday, I arrived early to check on their progress. Chantelle said
that she, herself, had become sick during the night and she had a fever.
Matthew was staring at the ceiling, the cotton cloth he was wrapped in soaked
in urine.
I knew then
that I had to get Matthew away from his parents – they were not helping the
situation in the least. I left the hospital and walked 4 km to our nutrition
centre to talk with Judith.
“We’ll have
to get them to agree to Matthew sleeping here,” said Judith. “If they sleep
here at our centre – where I sleep – I’ll be able to see what they’re feeding
Matthew, and make sure they don’t miss anymore mealtimes.”
Alain
arrived, and so I sent Judith by taxi-bike, a form of transport made popular several
years ago by visiting Ugandan peacekeepers, and Alain and I followed on foot.
Half an hour later the three of us arrived back at the hospital. Chantelle lay
on the bed next to her emaciated child.
“Come on”,
I said, “Let’s go and find a change of scene. The hospital is not doing you any
good, Chantelle. We can go to Mama Modeste’s house, which is near here, to wash
Matthew’s clothes and have a chat about what we can do next.”
Chantelle
agreed. Perhaps by now she was depressed. The people at the hospital said
they’d treat her fever and put the costs on our bill. I leant over Matthew and
picked him up. We emerged into harsh sunlight; I wrapped the faded, patterned
cloth over his head. Because so many people were at the hospital to see the
eye-doctors, a few more stalls than was usual had sprung up on the other side
of the dirt track outside the simple hospital building. People turned to stare
at me carrying this small frail child away from the hospital.
“Where are
you going with one of ours?” they called out. I ignored them and continued on.
With Matthew’s bony frame against me, I talked to him about where we were
going, that his mother was coming along, too and that we’d have something nice
to eat. Without saying anything in reply, he accepted my words and remained
relaxed as I carried him across the empty plot opposite the hospital. After
about six or seven minutes, we arrived at Mama Modeste’s house.
Modeste
wasn’t there, but I was welcomed by other members of her family, and just after
I got there Judith, Chantelle, Matthew’s dad, and Alain arrived, too. We were
given a place to sit in their small house.
“You go
home, Francis, and come back later,” said Judith, “We can do everything here.”
She’d laughed at me earlier when I’d said that I would wash Matthew’s clothes
myself because nobody seemed willing to help. She would arrange everything, she
would wash his clothes and cook everyone something to eat.
I returned
at half-one to find them all sitting together in Modeste’s house, waiting for
the food to be served. Matthew’s faded cloths were hanging on a clothesline and
already dry. The air was already sweeter and everyone seemed relaxed again.
Matthew’s
dad spoke up. “I can see that I need to be at the hospital more and that
Chantelle is finding things difficult. If you leave a little money with me each
day, I will buy and cook Matthew’s solid food at the hospital. I will do it all
– don’t worry.”
We all went
back to the hospital feeling better about the situation.
As Matthew
lay again in his hospital bed, I noticed he had a high temperature. The nurse
confirmed it and said they would give him something to help.
Things were
looking up – Matthew’s parents were starting to take more responsibility and we
were all able to go home.
~ Part 4 ~ Basankusu: The story of little Matthew
The
nutrition project continued to do well; several more children got to their
target weight and were dismissed from the project. We would monitor them at
home to make sure their parents continued to feed them properly.
Alain
arrived at Mill Hill, early one morning, looking distressed.
“They’ve
gone,” he said. “Matthew, Chantelle and Matthew’s dad – vanished.”
“Well
they’ve done it before,” I replied, “but last time they said they’d been
looking for traditional medicine and later on they returned.”
Alain went
to find Chantelle’s family home – which is quite near to our feeding centre.
He’d ask there to find out where they’d gone. Then, we’d have to persuade them
to either go back to the hospital or install themselves at our centre.
It was the
next day when Alain came to say he’d finally tracked them down. Matthew’s
father had taken Matthew to his uncle’s house in the west of Basankusu. I
jumped into our Toyota Land Cruiser and we set off to persuade them to come
back, collecting Judith on the way. Basankusu’s so called roads are horribly
eroded mud and sand tracks, with huge crevices and holes in them caused by
heavy rain. Some show signs of gravelling and the severe erosion allows patches
of brick paving from the Belgian era to be revealed here and there. They are,
in essence, dirt tracks. I made my way cautiously along these roads.
The uncle’s
house was nicely presented, with kiln-baked bricks and a corrugated metal roof.
“They’ve
had money at some time,” I pondered, “I wonder why they find it so hard to care
for someone in their own family.”
Neighbours
across the dirt track stirred and then wandered over to our car. “You’re too
late,” said one woman, “he’s already dead.”
We were
stunned. All our work, all our encouragement, all our support ... for nothing.
Why didn’t they ... ? Why did they ... ? Questions raced through my head, but
the finality of death I knew was irreversible.
I decided
to go into the house to give my condolences. There, in a small room, on the
floor, was a bamboo bed, which is just a platform of thin bamboo sticks framed
with larger bamboo sticks – a small form wrapped neatly in patterned colourful
cloth lay at one end. It was Matthew’s lifeless body. The cloth cocooned his
body, his face visible from the folded cloth. All the worry and pain, all the
discomfort and fear – had gone, his face clear, relaxed, in death.
His father
sat next to him – head in hands, grief-stricken. I laid my hand on his
shoulder. “Please accept my condolences,” I said. He made a small movement with
his head to acknowledge me and then I left.
The uncle was waiting for me outside. “You
have a car,” he said, “and their village is 20 km from here. You can carry them
to their village for the burial.”
I’d made it
clear on several occasions that I wouldn’t pay for funerals. It’s hard, but my
work is for the living and – tragic though it was – I felt that Matthew’s death
could have been prevented. On the other hand, he may have been too sick to have
been saved from the beginning, and the blood transfusion had only, perhaps,
given him a few extra weeks reprise before his ultimate demise. We’ll never
know. Certainly, his parents had been overwhelmed by the commitment to keep him
alive and felt a failure - as did we ourselves.
“This car
isn’t in any condition to travel along that road,” I told him. “It really is
not our responsibility to bury Matthew – it’s his family’s. However, I will
give you a contribution to help with the costs.”
The uncle
went with me back to Maison St Joseph, where I live, and I gave him just over
$20, and his fare for a taxi-bike to take him home again.
It was more
than a week later when Matthew’s father called by our house. He told me that
his uncle had given him only $15 – he had apparently taken $5 for himself! Unfortunately,
this type of thing happens frequently...
While he
was there, Judith phoned. “We have just received another severely malnourished
child who needs hospital treatment,” she said.
“I’m on my
way,” I replied...